so, i ran back to napa today and grabbed my old ecm i returned as a core. Plugged her in to see if i was getting 6 volts from that one too, which i was, but also, my ses works(it didnt with the new ecm, thought it was the bulb), but alas, still code 15. I was getting ground when i probed the black wire itself, but when i probed the black wire at the
NEW CTS plug, no ground. So i pulled the black wire and the metal crimped on plug out of its plastic housing....who ever made the plug never stripped the black wire before crimping on the damn metal connector

, put on a different plug, runs like a champ now!, Thanks