Super rod did a test of different tpi intakes on a 383 a long time ago. I cant find the actual article but heres a link to the results
http://www.thirdgen.org/techboard/tp...feb-super.html (TPI shootout in Feb Super Rod magazine) . If you find the actual article, they have dyno graphs and detailed info on all the intakes tested.
Stock injectors may work (for the 350), I dont know for sure, but Im guessing with a prom burn they could work well enough.
Keep in mind any vortec head would require a $400+ base manifold no matter what but to the same end, its a good flowing piece and gmpp has some pretty high flow iron vortec heads, they may even have some aluminum ones. That would be the route I would go, you get vortec heads and you are required to get a new base manifold which is a good idea anyway to flow more.
Depending on your time table, upgrading the intake and heads on the current motor may be enough to hold you over while you upgrade your drivetrain for the 383 and getting a cam for the 350 would be kind of wasteful since you would be better off with a new cam in the 383. Keep in mind roller cams are $300 or so, thats money you could spend towards upgrading your drivetrain for the 383.
Ive never heard that aluminum heads 'require' higher compression, I just always assumed you can get away with higher compression since aluminum transfers heat so much better, not that its required by any means.