i called dana from probuilt he said that alittle slack was ok at idle. i took it for its first drive today

ran like poop but it was loud and angry anyway. 1-2shift was wayyyy early still (reajusted the TV like 3 times) 1-2 shift couldnt even be felt really you could just hear it. 1-2 shift was at like 10-15mph. also (i have mega shifter) when in manual 1 gear.... without me shifting to 2nd the 1-2 shift would take place anyway at 10-15mph. i would then shift to 2nd and it felt like sticking my hand into soft whipped pudding (through the shifter of course)
good thing tho is that 2-3shift would happen when i wanted it to in manual shift mode. the trans has a total of 5miles on it since the upgrade as of today. Dana said i have to manually shift it and keep the speed low and RPM low to get the air outa the system for the first 10-20miles. i only did 5 today bc i didnt like that way it was running... id rather fix the shifting issue. the shifts are SOFT tho

(they were neck snapping before and i lovedddd it)
so i kept it under 3000rpms and under the stall speed so that could be why their soft.
HERES THE GOOD NEWS!
i got sick of the shifter, shifting outa park etc was harder than usual and the shift into manual 1 was kinda iffy as far as not being in 1 fully... (would explain the 1-2 automatic soft shift) SO i jacked the car up and crawled under the car in the rain to see what the deal was. I figured id try to adjust the shifter cable on the trans. i loosened the cable nuts up and pulled it off the "selector lever" to see that there was 1/8" to 3/16" of movable play in it!?! whaaaattttt! thats alot of movement since its in the same direction of the cable shifting motion. I went to tighten the "selector lever nut" and found that it wouldnt tighten any more. Now remember i took this off the trans and didnt touch the "selector lever" or its nut. SO the nut or the shaft is stripped! greatttttt
i couldnt get the nut off or tighten it anymore so i was in a bind. I AM NOT RIPPING THE TRANS PAN OFF FOR THIS! i tried for an hr or so trying to push on the bracket/nut with a screw driver and take the nut off.... NOTHING worked!
Lets just say i got it to work, i did something im not proud of, but there is NO MORE slack

I adjusted the cable (well didnt have to) and tested the shifter. WORKS LIKE IT USED TOOO!!!! works great and is easy to shift as well as goes all the way into manual first again!! WOOP WOOP
i will post results on shifting etc tmrw, since its 2:40am and my car sounds like an airplane