I just switched to a carb setup from TPI and it appears my ECM doesn't like it, fuel pump is not coming on with key, or at all for that matter

1. I am having trouble locating my fuel pump relay

2. Once I find the relay, can I just bypass it so the pump will come on with key?

Also, I am not getting any power out of my MSD ignition, I have never installed one of these before but I think I have the bases covered, I have power coming from the battery (as well as negative to battery), I have the 12v supply coming on with the key.... I have no juice coming out to my coil is there a fuse somewhere? Is there some way to test the box (or did I just test it and it failed ? lol) or do I need a new box?

Thanks