I'm trying to send my friend a pair of TA door panels I found in Florida. He lives near Seattle. I've been to USPS, UPS, and Fed Ex. All tell me just shipping is around $90 since the panels (even out of a box) are considered an oversize item (just barely) and the price is the same as a 60 pound item. How does everyone ship these for less? Is this because I am down in Florida??? (I'm getting the cheapest rate available also.)