Update..
I solved it!
2 things where "wrong".
First it whas bad groudning. When I sorted that out, the SES light whent on more rarely then before.
So then I tried to reinstall the orginial chip, and behold no more SES light!
But the probleme still existed with the romulator.
SO that made me think about electronic interference.
As the ECM on the vette is under the hood the romulator is more exposed to electronic interference. What I did whas simply to shorten the cabel between the romulator and the ECM. And that made the trick!
Thanks for all the feedback
cheers