how do i know when someone replys to a thread that i've posted in without having to receive an email that clutters up my mailbox? i've changed my options so that i no longer receive annoying emails everytime someone replys to a thread but now it doesnt show replys in my user cp..

 

On the board, you'll notice that some threads have light red bowties by them while others have dark red bowties by them. The ones with the dark red bowties are once that have at least once new response since the last time you were on the boards. The light red ones haven't had any new responses. Hope that clears it up for you.